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专题研讨 - 如何爱人如己？

如何爱人如己？

简介

箴12:26义人引导他的邻舍；恶人的道叫人失迷。

当明白并遵守真神的诫命，唯有如此才懂得爱他人。否则我们就如那不义的官，不惧怕神也不尊重世人。

路6:35-36³⁵你们倒要爱仇敌，也要善待他们，并要借给人不指望偿还，你们的赏赐就必大了，你们也必作至高者的儿子，因为他恩待那忘恩的和作恶的。³⁶你们要慈悲，像你们的父慈悲一样。

利19:15-18¹⁵你们施行审判，不可行不义，不可偏护穷人，也不可重看有势力的人，只要按着公义审判你的邻舍。¹⁶不可在民中往来搬弄是非，也不可与邻舍为敌，置之于死。我是耶和华。¹⁷不可心里恨你的弟兄；总要指摘你的邻舍，免得因他担罪。¹⁸不可报仇，也不可埋怨你本国的子民，却要爱人如己。我是耶和华。

作为基督徒，在生活当中应当如何行才显明我们爱人如己呢？

1.要有耐心，慈悲，善待人

林前13:4爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒，爱是不自夸，不张狂。

弗4:32并要以恩慈相待，存怜悯的心，彼此饶恕，正如神在基督里饶恕了你们一样。

2.坚固和造就他人

罗15:1-2我们坚固的人应该担代不坚固人的软弱，不求自己的喜悦。²我们各人务要叫邻舍喜悦，使他得益处，建立德行。

弗4:29污秽的言语，一句不可出口，只要随事说造就人的好话，叫听见的人得益处。

3.看顾别人的益处，例如分享真福音的好处

腓2:4各人不要单顾自己的事，也要顾别人的事。

林前9：22-23²²向软弱的人，我就作软弱的人，为要得软弱的人；向什么样的人，我就作什么样的人。无论如何总要救些人。²³凡我所行的，都是为福音的缘故，为要与人同得这福音的好处。

4.在行为和诚实上爱弟兄，且因爱心受劳苦。

约一3:17-18¹⁷凡有世上财物的，看见弟兄穷乏，却塞住怜恤的心，爱神的心怎能存在他里面呢？¹⁸小子们哪，我们相爱，不要只在言语和舌头上，总要在行为和诚实上。

帖前1:3在神我们的父面前，不住地记念你们因信心所做的工夫，因爱心所受的劳苦，因盼望我们主耶稣基督所存的忍耐。

5.务要原谅人，不可记仇。

弗4:32并要以恩慈相待，存怜悯的心，彼此饶恕，正如神在基督里饶恕了你们一样。

林前13:5不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处，不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶

6.先用真理洁净自己，就能切实地爱他人。

彼前1:22你们既因顺从真理，洁净了自己的心，以致爱弟兄没有虚假，就当从心里彼此切实相爱。

7.遵守真神的真理。

约贰1:6我们若照他的命令行，这就是爱。你们从起初所听见当行的，就是这命令。

8.真神爱我们，所以我们也要爱他人。

我们对兄弟姐妹的爱可表明我们爱真神。

约壹4:19-21¹⁹我们爱，因为神先爱我们。²⁰人若说"我爱神"，却恨他的弟兄，就是说谎话的；不爱他所看见的弟兄，就不能爱没有看见的神。²¹爱神的，也当爱弟兄，这是我们从神所受的命令。

太25:35-40³⁵因为我饿了，你们给我吃；渴了，你们给我喝；我作客旅，你们留我住；³⁶我赤身露体，你们给我穿；我病了，你们看顾我；我在监里，你们来看我。³⁷义人就回答说：主啊，我们什么时候见你饿了，给你吃，渴了，给你喝？³⁸什么时候见你作客旅，留你住，或是赤身露体，给你穿？³⁹又什么时候见你病了，或是在监里，来看你呢？⁴⁰王要回答说：我实在告诉你们：这些事你们既做在我这弟兄中一个最小的身上，就是做在我身上了。

9.对他人要慷慨

对于物质上有需要的人士要慷慨解囊。

林后8:7-8⁷你们既然在信心、口才、知识、热心和待我们的爱心上，都格外显出满足来，就当在这慈惠的事上也格外显出满足来。⁸我说这话，不是吩咐你们，乃是藉着别人的热心试验你们爱心的实在。

林后8:24所以，你们务要在众教会面前显明你们爱心的凭据，并我所夸奖你们的凭据。

路6:35你们倒要爱仇敌，也要善待他们，并要借给人不指望偿还，你们的赏赐就必大了，你们也必作至高者的儿子，因为他恩待那忘恩的和作恶的。

徒20:35我凡事给你们作榜样，叫你们知道应当这样劳苦，扶助软弱的人，又当记念主耶稣的话，说：施比受更为有福。

10.当乐意接待客人，侍奉人。

加5:13-14¹³弟兄们，你们蒙召是要得自由，只是不可将你们的自由当作放纵情欲的机会，总要用爱心互相服事。¹⁴因为全律法都包在"爱人如己"这一句话之内了。

多1:8乐意接待远人，好善、庄重、公平、圣洁、自持

11.要作祷告，为他人代祷，为大家感恩，也为仇敌悲哀。

提前2:1-4¹我劝你第一要为万人恳求、祷告、代求、祝谢，²为君王和一切在位的，也该如此，使我们可以敬虔、端正，平安无事地度日。³这是好的，在神我们救主面前可蒙悦纳。⁴他愿意万人得救，明白真道。

诗35:12-14¹²他们向我以恶报善，使我的灵魂孤苦。¹³至于我，当他们有病的时候，我便穿麻衣，禁食，刻苦己心，我所求的都归到自己的怀中。¹⁴我这样行，好象他是我的朋友，我的弟兄；我屈身悲哀，如同人为母亲哀痛。

12.不可憎恶他人。

·若一个人恨他的弟兄，如何爱神？

约壹4：20人若说：我爱神，却恨他的弟兄，就是说谎话的。不爱他所看见的弟兄，就不能爱没有看见的神。〔有古卷作怎能爱没有看见的神呢〕

·凡恨他弟兄的，就是杀人的。

约壹3：14-20¹⁴我们因为爱弟兄，就晓得是已经出死入生了。没有爱心的，仍住在死中。¹⁵凡恨他弟兄的，就是杀人的。你们晓得凡杀人的，没有永生存在他里面。¹⁶主为我们舍命，我们从此就知道何为爱。我们也当为弟兄舍命。¹⁷凡有世上财物的，看见弟兄穷乏，却塞住怜恤的心，爱神的心怎能存在他里面呢?¹⁸小子们哪，我们相爱，不要只在言语和舌头上，总要在行为和诚实上。¹⁹从此，就知道我们是属真理的，并且我们的心在神面前可以安稳。²⁰我们的心若责备我们，神比我们的心大，一切事没有不知道的。

·从心里饶恕弟兄。

太18：35你们各人若不从心里饶恕你的弟兄，我天父也要这样待你们了。

·你们愿意人怎样待你们，你们也要怎样待人。

太7：12所以无论何事，你们愿意人怎样待你们，你们也要怎样待人。因为这就是律法和先知的道理。

13.不可向人报仇。不可为恶所胜，反要以善胜恶。

·你的仇敌若饿了或渴了，就给他饭吃，水喝。

箴25:21-22²¹你的仇敌，若饿了就给他饭吃。若渴了就给他水喝。²²因为你这样行，就是把炭火堆在他的头上。耶和华也必赏赐你。

·不要自己伸冤，不可为恶所胜，反要以善胜恶。

罗12:19-21¹⁹亲爱的弟兄，不要自己伸冤，宁可让步，听凭主怒。〔或作让人发怒〕因为经上记着，『主说：伸冤在我。我必报应。』²⁰所以『你的仇敌若饿了，就给他吃。若渴了，就给他喝。因为你这样行，就是把炭火堆在他的头上。』²¹你不可为恶所胜，反要以善胜恶。

14.不可向有需要的人推辞行善。

在好撒马利亚人的比喻中，我们不要像那假冒伪善的祭司和利未人，不帮助那受了伤的犹太人。帮助他的撒马利亚人，才是他真正的邻舍。（路10:25-37）

箴3:27-28²⁷你手若有行善的力量，不可推辞，就当向那应得的人施行。²⁸你那里若有现成的，不可对邻舍说："去吧！明天再来，我必给你。"

15.我们不可作传舌人，不说他人的闲话。

·我们不可作传舌人和说他人的闲话。

箴18:8传舌人的言语，如同美食，深入人的心腹。

·不可作假见证或在弟兄中布散纷争。

箴6:19吐谎言的假见证，并弟兄中布散分争的人。

16.待人不可不公平。不可偏待人和羞辱贫穷人，要给公平和公正的工资。

·主人应当公平地对待他们的仆人。

西4:1你们作主人的，要公公平平地待仆人，因为知道你们也有一位主在天上。

弗6:9你们作主人的待仆人也是一理，不要威吓他们，因为知道他们和你们同有一位主在天上，他并不偏待人。

·不可偏待人或羞辱贫穷人。

雅2：1-6¹我的弟兄们，你们信奉我们荣耀的主耶稣基督，便不可按着外貌待人。²若有一个人带着金戒指，穿着华美衣服，进你们的会堂去。又有一个穷人，穿着肮脏衣服也进去。³你们就重看那穿华美衣服的人，说：请坐在这好位上。又对那穷人说：你站在那里，或坐在我脚凳下边。⁴这岂不是你们偏心待人，用恶意断定人吗？⁵我亲爱的弟兄们请听，神岂不是拣选了世上的贫穷人，叫他们在信上富足，并承受他所应许给那些爱他之人的国吗？⁶你们反倒羞辱贫穷人。那富足人岂不是欺压你们，拉你们到公堂去吗？

（宗教教育系-分享会-Acts-12-0708）

Topical Study - HOW TO LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF?

HOW TO LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF?

INTRODUCTION

Prv. 12:26 The righteous is more excellent than his neighbour: but the way of the wicked seduceth them.

The first requirement is to know and keep God’s commandments only then can we know how to love others. Otherwise one would be like the unrighteous judge who neither feared God nor regarded man.

Luke 6:35-36 ³⁵But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil. ³⁶Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.

Lev. 19:15-18 ¹⁵Ye shall do no unrighteousness in judgment: thou shalt not respect the person of the poor, nor honour the person of the mighty: but in righteousness shalt thou judge thy neighbour. ¹⁶Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people: neither shalt thou stand against the blood of thy neighbour: I am the LORD. ¹⁷Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him. ¹⁸Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.

WHAT OUGHT WE TO DO TO MANIFEST OUR CHRISTIAN WAY OF LIFE IN LOVING OUR NEIGHBOUR ?

1．Be patient, compassionate and kind to others.

1Cor. 13:4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up

Eph. 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

2．Build them up and edify others.

Rom. 15:1-2 ¹We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves. ²Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.

Eph. 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

3． Look into the interest of others, like sharing the benefit of the true gospel.

Phil. 2:4 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.

1Cor. 9:22-23 ²²To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some. ²³And this I do for the gospel's sake, that I might be partaker thereof with you.

4． Love in deed and in truth.  Labour in love.

1John 3:17-18 ¹⁷But whoso hath this world's good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him? ¹⁸My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.

1Thess. 1:3 Remembering without ceasing your work of faith, and labour of love, and patience of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ, in the sight of God and our Father;

5． Forgive others. Do not harbour hatred.

Eph. 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

1Cor. 13:5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil.

6． Purify ourselves first in the truth and love others.

1Pet. 1:22 Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently:

7． Obey the truth of God.

2John 1:6 And this is love, that we walk after his commandments. This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.

8． Love others because of God’s love for us.

If we manifest our love towards our brethren then it shows that we love God.

1John 4:19-21 ¹⁹We love him, because he first loved us. ²⁰If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen? ²¹And this commandment have we from him, That he who loveth God love his brother also.

Matt. 25:35-40 ³⁵For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: ³⁶Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me. ³⁷Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink? ³⁸When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee? ³⁹Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee? ⁴⁰And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

9． Be generous towards others.

Contribute to the physical needs of others.

2Cor. 8:7-8 ⁷Therefore, as ye abound in every thing, in faith, and utterance, and knowledge, and in all diligence, and in your love to us, see that ye abound in this grace also. ⁸I speak not by commandment, but by occasion of the forwardness of others, and to prove the sincerity of your love.

2Cor. 8:24 Wherefore shew ye to them, and before the churches, the proof of your love, and of our boasting on your behalf.

Luke 6:35  ut love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.

Acts 20:35 I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.

10． Be hospitable and serve others.

Gal 5:13-14 ¹³For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. ¹⁴For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

Tit. 1:8 But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate;

11. Pray, make intercession and thanksgiving for everyone, even mourn for our enemies.

1Tim. 2:1-4 ¹I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; ²For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. ³For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; ⁴Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

Ps. 35:12-14 ¹²They rewarded me evil for good to the spoiling of my soul. ¹³But as for me, when they were sick, my clothing was sackcloth: I humbled my soul with fasting; and my prayer returned into mine own bosom. ¹⁴I behaved myself as though he had been my friend or brother: I bowed down heavily, as one that mourneth for his mother.

12. Should not hate others.

If we hate our brother, how can we love God?

1John 4:20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?

One who hates his brother is a murderer.

1John 3:14-20 ¹⁴We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love the brethren. He that loveth not his brother abideth in death. ¹⁵Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him. ¹⁶Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren. ¹⁷But whoso hath this world's good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him? ¹⁸My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth. ¹⁹And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him. ²⁰For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things.

We should forgive others from our hearts.

Matt. 18:35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.

Do not to others what we do not want others to do unto us.

Matt. 7:12 Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.

13. Should not take revenge against others. Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

If your enemy is hungry or thirsty, give him bread or water to eat or drink.

Prv. 25:2122 ²¹If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he be thirsty, give him water to drink: ²²For thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the LORD shall reward thee.

Do not avenge ourselves; do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Rom. 12:19-21 ¹⁹Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. ²⁰Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. ²¹Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.

14. Do not withhold good from those in need.

In the parable of the good Samaritan, we should not be like the priest or Levite who were hypocrites, who did not help the injured man who was also a Jew. Instead, it was the Samaritan who helped the man, and therefore was his true neighbour. (Luke 10:25-37)

Prv. 3:27-28 ²⁷Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it. ²⁸Say not unto thy neighbour, Go, and come again, and to morrow I will give; when thou hast it by thee.

We should not withhold good from those to whom it is due, if it is in our power to do so.

15. We should not be a talebearer and gossip about others.

We should not be a talebearer and gossip about others.

Prv. 18:8 The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly.

We should not bear false witness or cause discord among our brethren.

Prv. 6:19 A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.

16. Do not treat others unfairly. Do not show partiality and despise the poor. Give fair and just wages.

Masters should treat their servants justly and fairly.

Col. 4:1 1Masters, give unto your servants that which is just and equal; knowing that ye also have a Master in heaven.

Eph. 6:9 And, ye masters, do the same things unto them, forbearing threatening: knowing that your Master also is in heaven; neither is there respect of persons with him.

We should not show partiality or despise the poor.

Jas. 2:1-6 ¹My brethren, have not the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with respect of persons. ²For if there come unto your assembly a man with a gold ring, in goodly apparel, and there come in also a poor man in vile raiment; ³And ye have respect to him that weareth the gay clothing, and say unto him, Sit thou here in a good place; and say to the poor, Stand thou there, or sit here under my footstool: ⁴Are ye not then partial in yourselves, and are become judges of evil thoughts? ⁵Hearken, my beloved brethren, Hath not God chosen the poor of this world rich in faith, and heirs of the kingdom which he hath promised to them that love him? ⁶But ye have despised the poor. Do not rich men oppress you, and draw you before the judgment seats?

(Religious Education Unit – Sharing Session-Acts-12-0708)